Atmosphere in the Home

Mothers, to a large degree you set the atmosphere in your home.  How you begin the morning often sets the tone for the rest of the day.  When your children/husband come into the kitchen for breakfast, greet them with a smile and a pleasant “good morning”.  Remember to pray and thank God before your meals.

Smile more.  Smile as you begin your lessons, smile when you suggest making lunch together or tell them it’s time to take a nap. Take a moment to make eye contact and smile at your children throughout the day, tell them that you love them.  Have fun together, don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself or to laugh with your children.

Good manners show respect for others. “Please,” “thank you” and “excuse me” should not only be company manners but should be applied liberally at home as well.  Practice being helpful instead of demanding, grateful instead of grumbling. Hum or sing softly while you wash dishes or change a diaper.

When Father comes home or when someone wakes up after resting, give them a little while to themselves before you make requests on their time.  A warm greeting is welcomed, but a few moments to transition into the dynamics of family life will be appreciated.  Say “I’m sorry” readily and forgive offenses quickly.  Kindness, patience and understanding are always appreciated, and remember to give hugs and snuggles freely.

The atmosphere you create is important.  A happy home is a place where people want to spend time together, a place where children flourish, and blessings abound.